Episode 14 - Savanna

New episode with the lovely Savanna.

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xSavanna.xx for her socials

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:00

Hey guys, welcome back to the next episode of my podcast. I'm Abby Rose, your host, and today I have a very beautiful, amazing guest, and her name is Savannah. Do you want to go ahead and say like what your usernames are, where they could find you? Yeah, so my Instagram is Savannah Lynn Love L Y N N.

SPEAKER_01 0:20

My OnlyFans, I'm all about to say that. Yeah. Is uh xSavanna.xx.

SPEAKER_00 0:26

Cool. And that's about that's those are your same.

SPEAKER_01 0:29

You can find everything else you need, especially at my Instagram.

SPEAKER_00 0:32

Do you have a website?

SPEAKER_01 0:33

I do not.

SPEAKER_00 0:34

Okay, cool.

SPEAKER_01 0:35

But I do have my my link in my Instagram. Link in bio. Yep.

SPEAKER_00 0:38

Link in bio. Yep. And so we have had a really, really good time so far. She actually flew in super early this morning. We got a little nappy poo in. Yeah. Got some rest. 5 a.m. flights are not it.

SPEAKER_01 0:52

Yeah. Especially when you leave two live two hours from the airport. And you drove two hours. Yep. To the airport and then straight from two-hour flight. And then you pick me up.

SPEAKER_00 1:02

Yeah. And I think like I was so excited about meeting her and seeing her that I woke up at like three in the morning too. So we're both, you know, we're drinking our coffee. Yes. Yes. Sure. We love a midday coffee. We need it, that's for sure. So I want to learn as much about you as possible. This um podcast is kind of geared towards focusing on entrepreneurship and being successful. The coffee is really getting to me. Um, and being successful, which obviously everybody has different views on success. And then we also throw a little bit about mental health as well. Um, so let's just kind of start from the beginning. Like, who are you? Like, why did why are you a sex worker? Like, how did it all begin?

SPEAKER_01 1:46

Um, well, I am a mother of four little children, and I did want to be involved in their life as much as possible. And I was a boudoir photographer for a while, but then like I moved, and sometimes it's kind of hard to sustain a business like that with children. Um, so you know, in 2021, when TikTok was popping about how much people were making, um, I had a friend be like, Hey, let's try this. Like, imagine if we can make this money staying at home with our kids. And I was like, Okay, that sounds like a good idea. Yeah. So I never thought, honestly, that I would do something and like I would do this and like continue forward with it, or even make more money. Like at that time, like any money is like fun money for me. So I was just like, let's try it. And then, you know, one thing led to a next, and then I dipped my toes in and I started like working with other creators, and what became something that was supposed to be just for fun turned into more than a full-time income. Um, and you know, it's given me the ability to be there for you know sick days and not needing to like take off for like vacations and um you know after school activities, things that like having a normal nine to five with four little kids would have made difficult. I would have missed out on some things. Um, so I will always be grateful for it because it's allowed me to be there more than I probably would have had I did something else.

SPEAKER_00 3:11

Yes, and I love that like everybody, not everybody, but there is a stigma against like the MILF category, like being bad moms. Yeah. But really, I think it we're the the best ones because we can be there through, like you said, through it all. Yeah, for sure. And it's amazing. Yeah, and we make our own schedules.

SPEAKER_01 3:29

Exactly. And that's always been something that's like really I'm grateful for because I didn't necessarily have that all the time growing up. So, you know, to be there and not, you know, I'm no shame to like you know, people who ha whose kids have to go to daycare or whatever, but this is something that, you know, during nap time I can go make some TikToks, you know, I can do what I need to do. Um, and then when they wake up, I'm there. Exactly. Or like when they go to bed, I I gotta do what I gotta do early in the morning before they wake up. So is there some sacrifices? Yeah, like waking up early, staying up a little bit later, not being able to just lay on the couch and take a nap myself during nap time. But I I personally wouldn't change it. I'm really grateful for the opportunities it's given me and the people that I've met because I so many people I never would have met. I would have never left my state, honestly. Yeah. As much as I have now. And so there's just a lot of things to be grateful for for. And are you like small town vibes? Yeah, yeah, I'm definitely not a city person at all. Like the closest city to me is two hours away. So anyway, I go, I gotta drive two, two and a half hours to a city.

SPEAKER_00 4:30

And that's what I love about our industry is like you can literally live anywhere. Like a lot of people think that you have to live in either LA, um, Florida, or Vegas to succeed. But really, you could be you could be wherever you want. Like it's amazing. Like the internet that has a lot of faults, but that's one really good thing is you can make fucking money on the internet.

SPEAKER_01 4:50

Yeah, and especially because like I am in the Midwest, so in my brain, you know, before this, I would think, oh, like that. Oh, sorry, that is where like a lot of people are, is like the East Coast, Florida, and I also think California, but like Vegas and stuff like that. I've actually never been to any of those places. I've been in Florida, but not for like work. Um, so a lot of my stuff I've done has been in like Nashville, Kansas, uh, Kansas City, Texas, Texas, yeah. I have been to Texas a couple times. I think this is my third time being in Texas. Um, so yeah, I mean I know Texas men love you.

SPEAKER_00 5:22

Yeah. Maybe loving you.

SPEAKER_01 5:26

But um, so the opportunities even to travel um is just another perk of it all. So that's awesome. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 5:32

Yeah, and I feel like I don't know if this is true or not, but do your fans like the first thing they say is how much they love your eyes? Oh, yes, I do. That's um I always get that comment. That's your money maker. I mean your entire self is a money maker, but like she I'm you guys just get the camera view, but I get the up-close view, and I literally like mesmerized every time I look at her. We had to do like a kissing scene earlier, and I was just like staring at her eyes, or like we were doing like pictures, and I'm like, god damn, like those are so nice. Thank you. So, yeah, okay, so you're killing it. You said when we were talking earlier that you kind of have like a jump start into the industry, like you kind of like were thrown into the wolves a little bit.

SPEAKER_01 6:13

Yeah, so you know, doing my research, I learned that like collaborating with other creators was like a good way to like market yourself. And so I did, I basically like shot my shot to a bigger creator who I never would have thought would like reach out to me. And she did probably within two weeks of me starting, um, which has its pros and its cons. Like I told you, the pros are, you know, I start making money immediately. Yeah, the cons are I never learned the true hustle and grind of this job. Um, so like when I did go through like life changes and like I backed off of collaborating, I had to figure out okay, like I'm the I'm relying on only myself to market myself. I'm relying on only my content to like make money and stuff like that. So I'm grateful for it, but now um because like I told you also, I was in Germany for a year and collaborating in another country is very hard. Um yes, they speak English, but you know, Germans are they like their country, they love their country, which is respectful. Um, but it was very hard for me to like stand out in this crowd, um, especially when I'm I don't know German. Uh so I really learned the hustle, I learned the struggles of not having, you know, the the outside help from working with other creators. So it definitely has been an adjustment. And now that I'm back, I'm grateful to be able to collaborate again because you know, being by yourself as a solo creator can be very lonely. Yes. And I'll be very honest, like, there was a point where I was like, I don't know that I want to do this anymore because it's collaborating's fun because yeah, you you understand my job, I understand your job.

SPEAKER_00 7:50

And you feed up energy, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 7:52

That and then then we can talk about real life stuff, not just work stuff, whereas, like, you know, in real life, like nobody really wants to hear about my job, right? They want to talk about real life stuff, and that's cool, but my job is a big part of my life. Yeah, so it's nice to like get into these situations with collaborating because we understand each other better than more people, most people would.

SPEAKER_00 8:09

It's really, it really is like a family, like like other sex workers and people in the industry are like we're just we just get it. If you know, you know, right. And it's it's just a total totally different world. Yeah, okay, cool. So you've been killing it, you're back to collaborating. Is there anybody on your list like that you need to collaborate with or really want to?

SPEAKER_01 8:32

Um, well, you were definitely a big one whenever I seen you. Yeah, I've seen you, like I said, through Michelle Boss's page, so shout out to Michelle. Michelle. Um, but right now I kind of uh I do have more um collab houses coming up um with some girls in Texas. Um I don't know all of them. They're all kind of new to me. I've never worked with them. Is a girl named Gigi going by chance? Um, I'm not sure. I know Willow Whispers and then Miss Joy. Okay. I know those two for sure, and then I think Classy Texas something. Okay. I'm not sure. Um, but those these are all new girls, and then um right before this, I also got introduced to like a new group of girls who monthly do collab houses. Um, like Ashton Joe, uh Kane Natrix, um Just the Barbie, just a few of them. Okay, cool. So yeah, I'm just kind of I mean, I'm willing to like work with like any most I only work with female creators, um, so that is one thing. Um, but and are you doing like romance scenes, strap scenes, Dom scenes? Like so I'm a very submissive, so I do do a lot of strap, but I always am the getting the strap. Okay, so that's a big one. My subscribers love that stuff. Um, but I do just about everything. I just like I said I'm very a submissive person, so I'm the submissive one in all of it. Love that.

SPEAKER_00 9:50

But other than that, there's I feel like we're gonna have some fun then because I do like to strap. I'm not gonna say I'm the best strapper ever because it's not like I do it all the time. Yeah, but I do enjoy it and have fun with it. And then there's a girl that I think you need to work with, her name is Jacqueline Valentine.

unknown 10:05

I love her.

SPEAKER_00 10:06

Have you worked with her already? No, have you? Yes. She was better than any guy.

SPEAKER_01 10:11

I love her. I will look at her on Twitter all the time. One, she's so beautiful. So beautiful. Her boy girl stuff is so good, and I've seen her girl girl stuff too.

SPEAKER_00 10:20

She knows how to throw down like strap queen for sure. I love her. She was like one of my first collabs. Really? Oh my gosh. And I it was so crazy, like, oh my god, this is like probably way oversharing with everybody, but um, I didn't, I was just ran into sex work and like I obviously was working with a bunch of people and I got BB, and I didn't even know what BB was, really. Um I didn't know about boric acid. Right. And she was so fucking nice to me about it. She was like, girl, it's totally fine. Like this happens all the time in our industry and stuff. She put me on she didn't like put me on it, but like she told me about it. Right. Um, boric acid and like just kind of like made me feel really okay that that happened. And then I was like aware now of like my sexual health as a woman. Yeah, and so she and she also helped me like with the business side of OnlyFans so much. Right. She's just amazing human.

SPEAKER_01 11:13

I was just looking at her Twitter like the other day. I was just like watching, and I didn't think she's so yes, yeah, so beautiful. I love her.

SPEAKER_00 11:20

She's so cute. So stay tuned for a scene of them too together of late, or maybe all three of us one day. That'd be so sad. That would be a good one. That'd be really good. Um, okay, cool. So let's see. With as far as like mental health goes, how do you handle your mental health in this industry? Do you take breaks? Like um, well, I did I have taken breaks.

SPEAKER_01 11:40

Um for me though, I realized that I I'm either like zero or 100. So if I take breaks, I do too much. So I have I've tried to learn like the middle ground of it. Um, specifically mental, the big thing for me I learned a long time ago was like don't read comments. Okay. Or like read comments to an extent. Like as soon as I start to feel like uncomfortable or bothered, don't read it. Don't read no more. Yeah. Um, that's been a big help, you know. Also, like understanding who I am as a person. Like, I understand these people on the internet don't know who I am, genuinely. Um, so that's a big one is like being true to myself, um, which is like easier said than done for some people, right? Yeah. Um, but also, you know, people in the industry, like putting myself around people who are kind, who are willing to like listen. Cause it is kind of hard to like vent about this life to, you know, real life people who are not a part of it. Um, and not that I have ever felt like a burden, but it's not a burden I want other people to like carry for me. Um, and they just don't understand.

SPEAKER_00 12:39

No. They're like, girl, you're fucking. I'm like, no, yeah, not just fucking. So I think my big one is just like believe it or not, that's not all I'm doing. Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_01 12:47

Stepping away from like reading comments and like engaging in hateful comments um is probably the biggest thing for my mental health that I've done.

SPEAKER_00 12:55

Yeah, love that, love that so much. And then um, kind of just to just wrap it up, um, what would you say is your definition of success? Because we all have different definitions. So, what does it mean to you?

SPEAKER_01 13:06

It's not all the money in the world, it's you know, obviously, like money is a big help, but it's being able to live the life that I want to live. Um, uh, being able to like give my kids a life that I would have wanted to live, and just being there present as their mom is like a big one for me. That's amazing. Yeah, so yes, is money nice? Sure, but like at the end of the day, like I just want to be the best person for myself, for my children, and myself and my family. Um, and you know, that could be a whole bunch of money or it could be not a lot of money, just enough money, I guess. Um, but yeah, just at the end of the day, just being genuinely happy and um because I've I've I've been through a phase in my life where I did have a lot more money, and you know what they said, like more money, more problems. That's true. Um, and I'll be very honest, I went through a phase where money went to my head and became me not it made me become not the best version of myself. Um, I think I've learned from that version of myself though. So like going forward, like I don't think I'll be that way, but I just don't think money's like the biggest, the biggest motivator in my life anymore.

SPEAKER_00 14:08

Love that, yeah. Love that. It's like having that time with your family and just really like spending quality, making quality memories with them and stuff like that.

SPEAKER_01 14:17

Realizing that life is actually a lot more short than you realize.

SPEAKER_00 14:20

Yes, love that so much. Yeah, okay, guys. So thank you so much for watching. I'm gonna give her one more chance to shout out her where they can find you.

SPEAKER_01 14:27

Yeah, so my Instagram's the best place, is Savannah Lynn Love. So it's S-A-V-A-N-N-A. Cool. Lynn L-Y-N-N-L-O-V-E-X-X.

SPEAKER_00 14:36

Any periods or dots or anything like that. Okay, so you guys got that? Make sure. And we'll we'll tag it in the captions and stuff like that. And yeah, if you guys want to see it, stay tuned for part two. We're about to take our tops off. And so that will be available only on our paid sites, and we're gonna continue this interview. I have a couple more questions I want to ask her, but I want to see some titties, and I'm sure you do too. So let's go. Bye. Bye.